QA問答：有哪些心理學(xué)事實(shí)讓你感到震驚?
What psychological facts shock you?
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1. Most people don't want you to live better than him. Some of your relatives and friends just want to see your jokes, but when you succeed, they will come to you like a pug for good.
2. 99% of women want to find a boyfriend with high appearance, good figure and rich family, but it's a pity that most of the girls are not rich and handsome. Men are the same.
3. There is no big difference between men and women in the matter of lust. Boys talk about how hard a beautiful woman is in the dorm, and girls are crazy about the 8-point handsome guy on the street.
4. Most people have weak willpower and lack of patience.
5. The influence of the original family on a person is much greater than imagined, especially the personality and consumption habits. Everyone has the shadow of parents, whether it is good or bad.
【回答】2020年在上海交通大學(xué)學(xué)習(xí)英語和心理學(xué)
1、大多數(shù)人不希望你比他生活得更好。你的一些親戚和朋友只是想看你的笑話，但是當(dāng)你成功了，他們就會像哈巴狗一樣來找你。
2、99%的女性希望找到一個(gè)顏值高，身材好，家庭富裕的男朋友，但遺憾的是，大多數(shù)女孩的男朋友都不富有，也不英俊。男人也是一樣的。
3、男人和女人在性欲方面沒有太大的區(qū)別。男孩子們在宿舍里談?wù)撈恋呐?，而女孩子們則對街上的8分帥哥著迷。
4. 大多數(shù)人意志力薄弱，缺乏耐心。
5.原生家庭對一個(gè)人的影響比想象的要大得多，特別是個(gè)性和消費(fèi)習(xí)慣。每個(gè)人都有父母的影子，無論是好是壞。
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7. Don't take it too hard. Try to live anyway. If you die, you will have nothing.
8.The people who finally achieved the leap of social stratum have basically paid 200% of their efforts and huge invisible sacrifice from outsiders.
9.After the age of 18, we are more and more far away from our parents. If they are free, call their parents at least once a month, even if it is only five minutes, they will be very happy.
10. Don't break up easily, because once you say it, it may mean that you and the person in front of you will never see each other again. Life is not an idol drama. You think you may be reunited, but in fact, you will only be separated completely like two straight lines, never to be seen again.
6、富人看起來不錯(cuò)的原因80%是因?yàn)樗麄冇绣X有資源，20%是因?yàn)樗麄兩朴谧晕野b。
7、不要太難過。無論如何要努力活下去。如果你死了，你將一無所有。
8、那些最終實(shí)現(xiàn)社會階層跨越的人，基本上付出了200%的努力和外界巨大的無形犧牲。
9、18歲以后，我們離父母越來越遠(yuǎn)了。如果他們有空，每個(gè)月至少給他們的父母打一次電話，即使只有五分鐘，他們也會很高興。
10、不要輕易分手，因?yàn)橐坏┠阏f出來，可能意味著你和你面前的人再也見不到對方了。生活不是偶像劇。你以為你們會重聚，但事實(shí)上，你們只會像兩條直線一樣完全分開，再也不會見面。
12.Spending money is not necessarily consumerism. You can save, but you also have to learn how to spend money and spend it where you need it. If a person can only save money and not spend money, then such a life will not be happy.
13. There is no real friend in the workplace. Go to the company to work, is to make money, not to make friends. Deal with the relationship between colleagues, superiors and subordinates, try not to be humble or arrogant, be polite, keep a certain distance from colleagues, do not disclose too much personal privacy, and don't speak ill of the boss in front of colleagues.
11、性生活和諧的夫妻不容易離婚。當(dāng)你在婚后失去激情的時(shí)候，你應(yīng)該有規(guī)律地做愛，嘗試一些新的技巧。如果你愛一個(gè)人，你有義務(wù)在床上滿足他。
12、花錢不一定是消費(fèi)主義。你可以存錢，但是你也必須學(xué)會如何花錢，并且把錢花在你需要的地方。如果一個(gè)人只能存錢而不能花錢，那么這樣的生活是不會幸福的。
13、在工作場所沒有真正的朋友。去公司工作，是為了賺錢，不是為了交朋友。處理好同事、上級和下級之間的關(guān)系，盡量不要謙虛或傲慢，要有禮貌，與同事保持一定的距離，不要透露太多的個(gè)人隱私，不要在同事面前說老板的壞話。
15. Pay attention to your appearance. Most people are not bad in appearance, but they are always reluctant to tidy up. Boys do a good job in facial cleaning, regular hair care, pay wages, spend 1 / 5 of the monthly money to buy their own clothes.
16. Reading is the fastest way to improve one's thinking ability, but don't think reading is omnipotent. After reading books, you must practice more and improve yourself repeatedly in practice.
17. Life is a process of constant mediocrity. 80% of people can't achieve financial freedom and love freedom in their whole life, no matter how hard they try.
14、注意健康，長時(shí)間坐在電腦前，鍛煉你的頸椎，晚睡時(shí)少吃高熱量的垃圾食品。
15、注意你的外表。大多數(shù)人的外表并不差，但是他們總是不愿意整理。男孩子們做好了臉部清潔，定期護(hù)理頭發(fā)，發(fā)工資后每月花1/5的錢給自己買衣服。
16、閱讀是提高思維能力的最快方法，但不要認(rèn)為閱讀是萬能的。讀完書后，你必須多加練習(xí)，在實(shí)踐中不斷提高自己。
17、生活是一個(gè)平庸的過程。80%的人無論如何努力，都無法實(shí)現(xiàn)經(jīng)濟(jì)自由和愛情自由。
19. There is no pure friendship between men and women. The uglier the relationship is, the purer the relationship is.
20. If a person hates you, it may not be because you did something wrong, but because you touched his interests.
21. Most people are lying when they say they are not cheating. Only in the face of countless temptations, but not wavering, is worthy of admiration; a person who has not seen temptation tends to overestimate his bottom line.
18、缺乏安全感和對未來的擔(dān)憂，只是因?yàn)槟悻F(xiàn)在賺的錢太少，并且不確定你是否能在未來變得富有。為自己設(shè)定一個(gè)目標(biāo)可以是買房子或車，這可能會更有動(dòng)力。
19、男人和女人之間沒有純粹的友誼。關(guān)系越丑陋，關(guān)系就越純潔。
20、如果一個(gè)人恨你，可能不是因?yàn)槟阕鲥e(cuò)了什么，而是因?yàn)槟阌|動(dòng)了他的利益。
21、當(dāng)大多數(shù)人說他們不會劈腿的時(shí)候，他們是在撒謊。只有面對無數(shù)的誘惑，而不動(dòng)搖，才值得欽佩；沒有見過誘惑的人往往會高估自己的底線。
23. The world has never been equal. Some people were born in Rome, others were born in garbage, but compared with those born in Rome, those who got up from the garbage and walked all the way to Rome are more admirable.
24.People who say they have high EQ generally have low EQ and low IQ.
25. People who have perseverance in doing things and persist to the end are more likely to succeed in career and love in life.
22、如果老板當(dāng)著所有人的面批評你，他一定是被你冒犯了，不要聽他的廢話；
23、世界從來沒有平等過。有些人出生在羅馬，有些人出生在垃圾堆里，但與那些出生在羅馬的人相比，那些從垃圾堆里爬起來，一路走到羅馬的人更令人欽佩。
24、自稱情商高的人通常情商低，智商也低。
25、有毅力做事并堅(jiān)持到底的人，更有可能在事業(yè)和生活中獲得成功。
* Asking someone to do you a favour makes them like you more.
* About 80% of human group conversations are complaining.
* Bananas contain a chemical that naturally helps make someone happy, it's the same chemical as Prozac.
* Being alone for a long time is as bad for you as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
* Confidence is the key. If you do not believe in yourself, no one will do it.
* Convincing your brain that you have slept well, cause your brain to think it was the case.
* Couples who laugh together for at least 10 minutes each day will have a stronger relationship.
* Cuddling literally kills depression, relieves anxiety and strengthens the immune system.
* Daytime naps improve memory and reduce the risk of heart attack.
【回答】
* 讓別人幫你一個(gè)忙會讓他們更喜歡你。
* 大約80%的人對話都是抱怨。
* 香蕉中含有一種化學(xué)物質(zhì)，這種化學(xué)物質(zhì)能讓人自然而然地感到快樂，這種化學(xué)物質(zhì)和百憂解一樣。
* 長時(shí)間獨(dú)處對你的危害與每天抽15支煙一樣大。
* 自信是關(guān)鍵。如果你不相信自己，沒有人會相信自己。
* 讓你的大腦相信你睡得很好，這樣就會讓你的大腦認(rèn)為你睡得很好。
* 每天一起笑至少10分鐘的夫妻關(guān)系會更牢固。
* 擁抱可以消除抑郁，減輕焦慮，增強(qiáng)免疫系統(tǒng)。
* 白天小睡可以提高記憶力，降低心臟病發(fā)作的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。
* Doing things that scare you will make you happier.
* Do not chase people. Work hard and be yourself.
* Do not feel sad for someone who abandoned you, have mercy on them because they abandoned someone who would never have abandoned them.
* Dreams are the conversations between you and your subconscious mind.
* Eating an orange has been effective in reducing stress. That's why doctors recommend having an orange before going to work.
* Even the illusion of progress is motivating.
* Experts say that a good relationship is more important for a long life than exercise.
* Funny people are more depressed than others.
* 憂郁癥是過度思考的結(jié)果。大腦往往會制造一些根本不存在的問題。
* 做一些讓你害怕的事情會讓你更快樂。
* 不要效仿別人。努力工作，做你自己。
* 不要為拋棄你的人感到難過，要憐憫他們，因?yàn)樗麄儝仐壛艘粋€(gè)永遠(yuǎn)不會拋棄他們的人。
* 夢是你和你的潛意識之間的對話。
* 吃橘子可以有效減輕壓力。這就是為什么醫(yī)生建議在上班前吃一個(gè)橘子。
* 即使是積極的幻覺也能激勵(lì)人心。
* 專家說，對于長壽來說，良好的人際關(guān)系比鍛煉更重要。
* 有趣的人比其他人更抑郁。
* Humans love colours and do you know that colours have a huge impact on the purchase of any product or connection with a company?
* Humans cannot be "just friends" with members of the opposite sex.
* If a person speaks less, and when they speak, they speak quickly and straight to the point, they are more likely to keep secrets.
* If you are worried about what others will think, you will never be happy.
* If you do not love yourself, you will always chase people who do not like you either.
* If you suspect someone staring you, check your watch. If they start checking the time, it means they are staring you.
* “早安”和“晚安”的短信會激活大腦中負(fù)責(zé)快樂的部分。
* 人類喜歡顏色，你知道顏色對購買任何產(chǎn)品或與公司的聯(lián)系有很大的影響嗎？
* 人類不可能與異性成為“只是朋友”的關(guān)系。
* 如果一個(gè)人很少說話，當(dāng)他們說話時(shí)，他們說得又快又直截了當(dāng)，他們更有可能保守秘密。
* 如果你擔(dān)心別人會怎么想，你永遠(yuǎn)不會快樂。
* 如果你不愛自己，你就會追求那些也不喜歡你的人。
* 如果懷疑有人盯著你看，請看一下手表。如果他們開始看時(shí)間，那就意味著他們在盯著你。
* If you meet someone for the first time, you only have 7 seconds to make a convincing first impression.
* In the modern lifestyle, the internet addition is a mental disorder.
* Marrying your best friend eliminates the risk of divorce by more than 95%, and this marriage is more likely to last a lifetime.
* Meditation can change brain structure in just 8 weeks. It also increases the grey matter in the parts of the brain associated with learning.
* Most people send SMS faster when it's someone they like.
* No matter how strong you are, there is always someone who can make you weak.
* Nearly twice as many serial killers were born in November than any other month.
* 如果你的思想不正道，有85%的可能性你會無意識地對你的生活感到不快樂。
* 如果你是第一次遇見某人，你只有7秒鐘的時(shí)間來給對方留下令人信服的第一印象。
* 在現(xiàn)代生活方式中，網(wǎng)絡(luò)成癮是一種精神疾病。
* 與你最好的朋友結(jié)婚，可以減少95%以上的離婚風(fēng)險(xiǎn)，而且這段婚姻更有可能持續(xù)一生。
* 冥想可以在8周內(nèi)改變大腦結(jié)構(gòu)。它還會增加了大腦中與學(xué)習(xí)有關(guān)的部分的灰質(zhì)。
* 當(dāng)對方是自己喜歡的人時(shí)，大多數(shù)人發(fā)送短信的速度會更快。
* 無論你多么堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，總有人能讓你變得軟弱。
* 十一月份出生的連環(huán)殺手人數(shù)是其他月份的近兩倍。
* People are more likely to cry at night because lack of sleep makes emotions difficult to control.
* People get more happiness by spending money on others rather than on themselves.
* People seem more attractive when they talk about things that really interest them.
* People see you as 20% more attractive than you think according to one study.
* People who are easily distracted usually have high IQs.
* People who give excellent advice usually have the most problems; similarly, those most affected generally have the best healing ability.
* People who speak two languages may unconsciously change their personality when they switch from one language to another.
* 對未來的樂觀信念可以保護(hù)人們免受身體和精神疾病的侵害。
* 人們更容易在晚上哭泣，因?yàn)樗卟蛔銜骨榫w難以控制。
* 人們把錢花在別人身上比花在自己身上更能獲得幸福。
* 當(dāng)人們談?wù)撍麄冋嬲信d趣的事情時(shí)，他們看起來更有吸引力。
* 根據(jù)一項(xiàng)研究，人們認(rèn)為你的吸引力比你想象的要高20% 。
* 容易分心的人通常智商高。
* 給出很好建議的人通常有最多的問題；同樣，那些受影響最大的人通常有最好的愈合能力。
* 說兩種語言的人在從一種語言轉(zhuǎn)換到另一種語言時(shí)，可能會無意識地改變自己的性格。
* People with a great signature usually have a high self-esteem.
* People with the highest IQ stay up late at night because their brains have increased mental stimulation.
* People who try to keep everyone happy end up feeling most alone.
* Researchers estimate that two-thirds of humans have no idea what they are good at or what their strengths are.
* Severe depression can cause us to age more quickly, increasing the process of cellular aging.
* Singing reduces feelings of depression and anxiety.
* Sleep makes you more creative and reinforces your memories.
* Smart people usually have a rough handwriting.
* Some people are genetically more likely to perceive negative events with more intensity and severity than others.
* 流汗多的人對朋友更加誠實(shí)和忠誠。
* 簽名很漂亮的人通常有很高的自尊心。
* 智商最高的人熬夜是因?yàn)樗麄兊拇竽X受到了更多的精神刺激。
* 那些試圖讓每個(gè)人都快樂的人最終會感到最孤獨(dú)。
* 研究人員估計(jì)，三分之二的人不知道自己擅長什么，或者自己的長處是什么。
* 嚴(yán)重的抑郁癥會使我們老得更快，加速細(xì)胞老化的過程。
* 唱歌可以減少抑郁和焦慮的感覺。
* 睡眠讓你更有創(chuàng)造力，增強(qiáng)你的記憶。
* 聰明人通常字跡潦草。
* 有些人天生比其他人更容易感知負(fù)面事件的強(qiáng)度和嚴(yán)重程度。
* Sometimes the eyes can say more than the mouth.
* Studies have shown that praise rather than criticism is the best way to help employees improve.
* Success is not a coincidence. It's hard work, perseverance, learning, study, sacrifice and, above all, loves of what you do.
* The memories are deformed with time, everyone has at least one false memory that they believes real.
* The memories triggered by the smells are stronger than the memories triggered by any other sense.
* The first impression is always made in the first 7 seconds.
* The people you cherish most often cause you the greatest pain.
* 聰明人的朋友往往比一般人少。越聰明的人，他們的選擇性就越強(qiáng)。
* 有時(shí)候眼睛比嘴巴更能說明問題。
* 研究顯示，幫助員工提高的最佳方式是表揚(yáng)，而不是批評。
* 成功不是巧合。這是艱苦的工作，毅力，學(xué)習(xí)，犧牲，最重要的是，熱愛你所做的事情。
* 記憶是隨著時(shí)間變形的，每個(gè)人都至少有一個(gè)他們相信是真實(shí)的錯(cuò)誤記憶。
* 嗅覺引發(fā)的記憶比其他任何感覺引發(fā)的記憶都要強(qiáng)烈。
* 第一印象總是在最初的7秒鐘產(chǎn)生。
* 你最珍惜的人往往給你帶來最大的痛苦。
* Today, the average high school student has the same level of anxiety as the average psychiatric patient of the early 1950s.
* The deeper your feelings are, the more difficult they are to express.
* The feelings of pain and loneliness are treated in the same part of the brain.
* The human body is recreated every six months.
* The left side of your face is more expressive than the right.
* The strangers in your dream are actually people you have seen in your real life.
* The way parents talk to their children becomes the child's inner voice.
* 女人能保守秘密的平均時(shí)間是47小時(shí)15分鐘。
* 今天，普通高中生的焦慮程度與20世紀(jì)50年代初普通精神病患者的焦慮程度相同。
* 你的感情越深，就越難以表達(dá)。
* 痛苦和孤獨(dú)的感覺是在大腦的同一部分處理的。
* 人體每六個(gè)月重建一次。
* 你的左臉比右臉更有表情。
* 夢中的陌生人實(shí)際上是你在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中見過的人。
* 父母對孩子說話的方式成為孩子內(nèi)心的聲音。
* When it's hot outside, you're more likely to fight.
* When people lie, they tend to cover or touch their mouths or noses discreetly.
* When you talk to someone, use their name, it will make them more like you.
* When you're in a group of people and someone says something fun and everyone starts laughing, try to notice who's laughing at you. People tend to look at the person they feel closest to when they laugh.
* Women are more attracted to attentive men, those who remember their details.
* You will be more likely to reach your goals if you keep them for yourself.
* Your shoes are much important than you think. People draw many conclusions about a person based on the shoes they wear.
* 用非慣用手進(jìn)行兩星期的日常工作(進(jìn)食、清潔、打開箱子)，有助提高自我控制能力。
* 當(dāng)外面很熱的時(shí)候，你更容易打架。
* 當(dāng)人們?nèi)鲋e時(shí)，他們會小心地捂住或觸摸嘴巴或鼻子。
* 當(dāng)你和某人交談時(shí)，稱呼他們的名字，這會讓他們更喜歡你。
* 當(dāng)你在一群人中，有人說了一些有趣的話，然后大家都開始笑，試著注意誰在對你笑。當(dāng)人們笑的時(shí)候，他們傾向于看他們感覺最親近的人。
* 女人更容易被細(xì)心的男人吸引，那些能記住她們細(xì)節(jié)的男人。
* 如果你留著目標(biāo)，你就更有可能達(dá)到目標(biāo)。
* 你穿的鞋子比你想象的要重要。人們會根據(jù)一個(gè)人所穿的鞋子得出許多結(jié)論。
* If you ask someone a question and they only partially answer, then just wait. If you stay silent and maintain eye contact, they will usually continue talking.
* When a group of people laugh, people will instinctively look at the person they feel closest to in that group.Good way to know who wants to sleep with you, right?
* If you get yourself to be really happy and excited to see other people, they will react the same to you. It doesn't always happen the first time, but it will definitely happen next time.
* Chew gum when you're approaching a situation that would make you nervous like public speaking or bungee jumping. If we are 'eating' something, our brain trips and it reasons 'I would not be eating if I were danger. So I'm not in danger'.
【回答】對心理學(xué)略知一二
* 如果你問某人一個(gè)問題，他們只回答了一部分，那就等等。如果你保持沉默和眼神交流，他們通常會繼續(xù)交談。
* 當(dāng)一群人笑的時(shí)候，人們會本能地看人群中他們覺得最親近的人。這是了解誰想和你上床的好方法，是吧？
* 如果你讓自己看到其他人時(shí)感到非常開心和興奮，他們也會對你有同樣的反應(yīng)。第一次不總是這樣，但下次一定會發(fā)生。
* 當(dāng)你接近一個(gè)會讓你緊張的場合時(shí)，嚼口香糖，比如公開演講或者蹦極。如果我們在‘吃’什么東西，我們的大腦就會思考‘如果我處于危險(xiǎn)的話，我就不會吃東西了’。所以我沒有危險(xiǎn)。
* When people are angry at you, if you stay calm it'll get them even angrier, and be ashamed about it after.
* When you take somebody out on a first date, take them somewhere exciting that will get their heart beating. For instance—a roller coaster or horror film. This gets their adrenaline up. It makes them think they enjoy spending time with you
* 留意人們的腳。如果你接近正在聊天的兩個(gè)人，他們只轉(zhuǎn)過身體而不轉(zhuǎn)過腳，說明他們不希望你加入聊天。同樣的，如果你正在和一個(gè)你認(rèn)為正在注意你的同事聊天，他們的身體轉(zhuǎn)向你，但是他們的腳朝向另一個(gè)方向，說明他們希望聊天結(jié)束。
* 當(dāng)人們對你生氣時(shí)，如果你保持冷靜，他們會更生氣，之后會為此感到羞愧。
* 當(dāng)你和某人第一次約會時(shí)，帶她們?nèi)ヒ粋€(gè)能讓他們心跳加速的刺激的地方。例如，過山車或恐怖電影。這會讓她們的腎上腺素上升。讓她們感覺更喜歡和你在一起。
* Always be honest so when you have to lie, people will believe you.
* If you make the biggest smile you can, you will automatically feel happier. Just don’t do it while staring at somebody. Unless you want to come across as a creep.
* Refer to people you've just met by their name. People love being referred to by their name, and it will establish a sense of trust and friendship right away. Say your friend introduced you to John. After 5 minutes he decides to leave. Don't just say, "bye", but instead say "Bye John!"
* If you want to stare at someone unashamedly, look directly past them and wait for them to try and meet your eyes. When they fail to do that, they'll look around (usually nervously for a second) and won't look at you again for some time. This is your chance to straight up stare at this person for at least 45 seconds.
* 人們記住的不是你說了什么，而是你給他們的感受。而且大多數(shù)人喜歡談?wù)撟约?，所以問很多關(guān)于他們的問題吧。
* 永遠(yuǎn)要誠實(shí)，這樣當(dāng)你不得不撒謊時(shí)，人們就會相信你。
* 如果你能笑得最燦爛，你會自然而然地感到更快樂。只是不要盯著別人看。除非你想給人留下討厭鬼的印象。
* 用你剛認(rèn)識的人的名字來稱呼他們。人們喜歡被稱呼自己的名字，這會立刻建立起一種信任和友誼的感覺。假設(shè)你的朋友把你介紹給約翰。5分鐘后，他要離開了。不要只說“再見”，而是要說“再見約翰！”
* 如果你想厚顏無恥地盯著某人，直視他們，等著他們試著看你的眼睛。當(dāng)他們做不到這一點(diǎn)時(shí)，他們會環(huán)顧四周(通常會緊張一秒鐘)，然后有一段時(shí)間不會再看你一眼。這是你直視這個(gè)人至少45秒的機(jī)會。
* 99 per cent of guys that don't fight often will instinctively throw a right hook when provoked.
* If you really want something from someone, frx it as an offer rather than a request. When Teddy Roosevelt was running for president, his campaign printed out 3 million leaflets with a picture of Teddy and a copy of a campaign speech. The campaign then realized that they didn't have the rights to the photo. Instead of explaining the situation to the photographer, which would have given him leverage to ask for a lot of money, the campaign made an offer that they would use the picture, giving the photographer lots of publicity if the studio paid them $250. The studio paid the money.
* 當(dāng)你學(xué)習(xí)新東西的時(shí)候，教一個(gè)朋友如何做。讓他們來問問題。如果你能夠很好地教授一些東西，你就能更好地理解這些知識。
* 99%不經(jīng)常打架的男人在被激怒時(shí)會本能地用右勾拳。
* 如果你真的想從某人那里得到什么，把它當(dāng)作一個(gè)提議而不是請求。當(dāng)泰迪 · 羅斯福競選總統(tǒng)時(shí)，他的競選團(tuán)隊(duì)印制了300萬張印有泰迪照片和一份競選演講稿的傳單。競選團(tuán)隊(duì)隨后意識到他們沒有這張照片的權(quán)利。競選團(tuán)隊(duì)沒有向攝影師解釋情況，這會讓他有籌碼來要錢，而是提出如果攝影工作室付給他們250美元，他們就會使用這張照片，會給攝影師帶來很大的宣傳效果。隨后攝影工作室付了錢。
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* Ask your interviewer as many questions about what they do for work and really listen. They will walk away from the interview in a good mood because they got to talk about themselves and they will then think that the interview went well.
* You have a much higher chance of success in a relationship if your parents and your friends like your romantic partner.
* You can judge the character of a person by how they treat people who can do absolutely nothing for them.
* You know how a joke ceases to be funny when you have to repeat it? Well use that to your benefit; if that asshole in the group is making jokes at your expense, act like you can't hear him and ask him to repeat it like 3 times. By the time he says it a 3rd or 4th time, no one’s laughing.
* 人們非常清楚自己的觸覺。如果有人“意外地”把他們的膝蓋碰到你的膝蓋，他們可能不會表現(xiàn)出意識到的樣子，但他們肯定知道碰到了。
* 問面試官盡可能多的關(guān)于他們工作的問題，并且認(rèn)真傾聽。這樣他們會帶著好心情離開面試，因?yàn)樗麄兛梢哉務(wù)撟约?，然后他們會認(rèn)為面試進(jìn)行得很順利。
* 如果你的父母和朋友喜歡你的愛人，那么你在一段感情中成功的機(jī)會就會大得多。
* 你可以通過觀察一個(gè)人是如何對待那些對自己毫無幫助的人，來判斷他的性格。
* 你知道當(dāng)你不得不重復(fù)一個(gè)笑話的時(shí)候，它就不再有趣了吧？好好利用這一點(diǎn)；如果有個(gè)混蛋在開你的玩笑，假裝你聽不到他說的話，讓他重復(fù)個(gè)三遍。當(dāng)他說了三四遍的時(shí)候，沒有人笑了。